I have heard it be said, You have your hands full, or I can barely handle the two I have. Sure, some days are really busy and maybe even a little crazy, especially when my kids were all small. However, my husband would tell people when they found out how many children we had, 4…5…, then finally up to 8, he would say, well, at least for us, they only came one at a time.
If you haven’t read our testimony about why we have a large family or the post about children's value, go check them out. Yet, as our family grew, we felt blessed. While it’s true that we would have to get used to another little person and adapt our lives temporarily, eventually, everything fell into place, and then we couldn’t imagine not having that new child in our family.
In today's blog post, I want to talk about managing multiple kids with God’s guidance. After all, it doesn’t matter whether you have one child or several; the fact is, we can’t handle any number of kids without God’s help.
Sure, we can go through the motions if we aren’t leaning on God, but many times, it just brings pure chaos if we don’t depend on his leadership in our everyday lives.
After all, I am no superwoman. I am just an average mom, who started when I was young, thinking I would have a couple of kids. I didn’t do it for a certain religion, I didn’t do it because I was brought up to have multiple kids, and I didn’t do it because I had a demanding husband that said I needed to be barefoot and pregnant as the old saying goes.
We surrendered our family size to God as he laid these things on our heart, and we have never regretted that decision.
Trusting God’s Plan for Your Family
In Proverbs 3:5-6 the Bible tells us to trust in the LORD with all thine heart and lean not unto thine own understanding.
In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. In every area of a Christian's life, God wants us to trust him. Having a family is no different. The world doesn’t value children, and society may have a negative attitude toward larger families, however, God has a plan for every child and will always be with you and your family.
Feeling Overwhelmed? You’re Not Alone!
Motherhood, especially with multiple children, can feel overwhelming at times. The never-ending to-do lists, sibling squabbles, and constant demands can leave you exhausted. But take heart—God is with you in every moment.
He sees your struggles, hears your prayers, and gives you strength when you feel weak.
Isaiah 41:10 reminds us, "Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness." You are never alone in this journey.
When you feel like you can't do it all, remember, you were never meant to—God is your helper, your refuge, and your source of peace. Surrender your burdens to Him, and He will guide you through even the toughest days. While this stage of life may feel like it will last forever, in time, it will pass, and you will be able to look back and see God guiding and leading you all the way.
God Doesn’t Call Without Equipping You
As moms, we have the greatest calling in the world. It is a privilege to be somebody's mother. I never want to take that for granted. After all, many couples would love to become parents, but have not been able to have children on their own for one reason or another.
However, rest assured, God isn’t going to call you to something that he hasn’t equipped you for. I remember one time when I was trying to teach one of my kids math. I am not good at Algebra AT ALL, and I can remember sitting out in the yard and asking God to help me find a program that would help my children in this area.
I went inside and got online, and God brought me to Teaching Textbooks, a computer-based math program that showed the kids how to do their math lessons. It is a Godsend, and I have been using it every since. (I’m not sponsored to say this.) It just really helped our kids.
My point is that I was in need of help, and God provided it. As we continued to have children, God always sent the provisions or help that we needed for each child.
So in your family, God will equip you in whatever way you need in raising your family, you can be rest assured of that.
Prioritizing Prayer in Parenting
Moms, I can’t emphasize enough the importance of starting your day with prayer. This is your lifeline to God and will be your strength and direction that sets your whole day.
It sets the tone for the whole day. It helps us align with his Word and helps us to see the value in what we are doing as wives and mothers. It also gives us wisdom and strength for the journey.
When I went to our church's ladies' retreat this year, one of the things they talked about was praying early in the morning. While I’m not saying there is anything wrong with praying in the evening, the Bible tells us to pray without ceasing. However, there are many scriptures to indicate starting your day out seeking the Lord.
Psalms 143:8 - Cause me to hear thy lovingkindness in the morning; for in thee do I trust: cause me to know the way wherein I should walk; for I lift up my soul unto thee.
Psalms 5:3 - My voice shalt thou hear in the morning, O LORD; in the morning will I direct my prayer unto thee, and will look up.
Psalm 59:16 But I will sing of thy power; yea, I will sing aloud of thy mercy in the morning: for thou hast been my defence and refuge in the day of my trouble.
Isaiah 26:9 With my soul have I desired thee in the night; yea, with my spirit within me will I seek thee early: for when thy judgments are in the earth, the inhabitants of the world will learn righteousness.
Psalms 57:8 - Awake up, my glory; awake, psaltery and harp: I myself will awake early.
Proverbs 8:17 - I love them that love me; and those that seek me early shall find me.
Psalms 63: 1-2 (A Psalm of David, when he was in the wilderness of Judah.) O God, thou art my God; early will I seek thee: my soul thirsteth for thee, my flesh longeth for thee in a dry and thirsty land, where no water is; 2To see thy power and thy glory, so as I have seen thee in the sanctuary. Because thy lovingkindness is better than life, my lips shall praise thee. Thus will I bless thee while I live: I will lift up my hands in thy name.
Here are several scriptures that encourage us to seek God early, but the next 2 verses show that after a night of healing and delivering people, Jesus arose early to pray.
While you can do your personal devotions anytime, I just wanted to bring out some of the things that I learned and hopefully you got something from these scriptures.
Seeking God at the beginning of the day helps us as moms to be attuned with God. He will lead and bless our day and direct us with our children because the joy of the Lord truly is our strength.
Letting Go of Perfection and Trusting God
There’s no such thing as a perfect parent or a perfect child, so we can stop trying to live up to impossible standards—whether they’re our own or someone else’s. God doesn’t require us to have it all together; He just asks us to seek Him and train our children to do the same. It’s easy to get caught up in how others are doing things, worrying about whether our home is spotless or if our schedule measures up.
Nevertheless, none of that really matters. What matters is being faithful in the calling He has given us. Whether you have a small family or a house full of kids, God’s provisions are the same. He gave you this family, and He will help you manage it. So, take a deep breath, let go of perfection, and enjoy the journey—because this season with your children is a gift.
Creating a Routine with Flexibility
Having a routine is important, but so is flexibility. Life with kids—especially a large family—doesn’t always go as planned (you have an unexpected errand, you need to take a child to the eye doctor, or you realize you need to put in a grocery order), and that’s okay. A routine should give structure to your day, not make you feel trapped by a rigid schedule. Some days will run smoothly, and other days will be full of unexpected interruptions.
Instead of feeling frustrated when things don’t go as planned, leave room for God to direct your day. A routine isn’t about checking every box—it’s about finding a rhythm that works for your family while allowing space for life to happen. Some days will look different than others, and that’s okay. A flexible routine brings peace and order to your home without making you feel stuck, giving you the freedom to embrace the moments in your life that matter.
Teaching Kids Responsibility and Teamwork
Teaching kids responsibility isn’t just about getting help around the house—it’s about preparing them for life. In a family, everyone plays a part, and when kids learn to pitch in, it not only lightens the load but also teaches them the value of hard work and teamwork.
Chores shouldn’t just be seen as something to get done but as an opportunity to train our children to be responsible, capable, and considerate of others. Even young kids can help in small ways, and as they grow, they can take on more. It’s not always faster or easier to teach them, but it’s worth it. When we work together as a family, we create a home where everyone feels needed and valued. Most importantly, we are teaching our kids to serve—both inside the home and beyond.
Leaning on God’s Strength, Not Your Own
No matter how much you plan, how well you organize, or how strong you try to be, you can’t do this on your own—and God never meant for you to. Raising and homeschooling kids, especially in a large family, will stretch you in ways you never expected. But the good news is, you don’t have to rely on your own strength.
God is faithful, and He will give you exactly what you need for each day. Some days will feel overwhelming, and you may wonder if you’re doing enough or if you’re a good mom. I know that feeling. But God didn’t make a mistake when He gave you these children. Whether you have two kids or ten, He will equip you to raise them. Instead of carrying the weight alone, surrender it to Him.
Pray, seek His wisdom, and trust that He will guide your steps. When you lean on His strength instead of your own, you’ll find peace, joy, and the ability to embrace this journey with confidence, knowing He is with you every step of the way.
You’re Not Alone—Lean on God and Keep Going!
At the end of the day, managing multiple kids isn’t about having the perfect schedule or always staying on top of everything—it’s about trusting God in the process. There will be good days and hard days, moments of joy and moments of exhaustion. But through it all, God is faithful. He doesn’t call us to this journey without providing the strength, wisdom, and grace we need to walk it out.
So, take a deep breath, give yourself some grace, and keep going. Trust that God will equip you for whatever comes next. And remember—you don’t have to do this alone!
If this post encouraged you, I’d love to hear from you. How do you rely on God in your parenting journey? Share your thoughts in the comments, and let’s encourage one another! And if you’re looking for more faith-filled encouragement, be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss future posts.
You’ve got this, mama—with God, all things are possible!
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