Raising Godly Children Through Biblical Training

My last blog post on children being a blessing and their value brought me out of necessity to talk about raising godly children through Biblical training.

"At the end of the day, our children are some of the greatest blessings God has given us. And it’s not something we should take lightly—it’s our calling to raise them to know and love His Son, Jesus."

How do we raise godly children in today's world? 

In today’s blog post, I want to talk about the ways that we can raise godly children. We can do that by giving our children Biblical training in the scriptures and walking that out before them.

It’s easy to feel overwhelmed when we think about all the things we “should” be doing to raise godly kids. But sometimes, it’s the simple, steady, everyday things that make the biggest difference. 

I have had the thought before, that raising children doesn’t come with a manual, but it really does, it’s called the Bible. 

God has directed and led us in every area that we will need for our lives and our children. 

Intentional Parenting: Why It Matters

The truth is, that raising godly children doesn’t happen by accident. It takes intentional parenting—a choice to slow down and pour into your children’s hearts on purpose, day after day. It’s easy to get caught up in the busyness of life, shuffling from one thing to the next, assuming our kids will “just pick up” faith along the way.

 But the world is pulling at them from every direction, and if we’re not guiding them intentionally toward God, the world will gladly guide them away. Being intentional doesn’t mean being the perfect parent. 

It just means we’re choosing to point their hearts to Jesus in the small moments, the hard conversations, and the everyday routines. It means we are planting seeds of faith, even when we’re not sure how or when they’ll grow.

You don’t need to be a Bible scholar or have all the answers—you just need to show up every day, love your children, and point them back to Jesus.

Talk About God in Everyday Moments

One of the easiest and most powerful ways to teach our children about God is by simply including him into our overday lives and conversations.  It doesn’t always have to be during formal Bible lessons such as my kids have in school, or even when we do our devotions everytime. 

In fact, some of the best faith lessons happen in just ordinary moments through out your day.  Either me or one of my kids, comment about how beautiful the sky or sunset is. That’s an opportunity to talk about the great artist that God is. 

When your child is scared or concerned about something, which I have had experience with 8 kids, those are the times that you can point them to Christ. You can let them know that God cares about their fears or the things that they are concerned about. 

This is a great time to point out, Moms, that he is concerned about you too. Sometimes, teaching our children, really helps us grow in our faith as well.

These moments don’t require a plan or a schedule- they just take a heart that’s looking for ways to talk to your children about God. Life will present those opportunities.

Another teaching moment for your kids is when your child tells you about a problem with someone they may have, you can tell your child, lets stop and pray for this person. We can ask God to help you love them like Jesus would, and to help them to come to Jesus.

How about trying to find things? I can’t tell you have many times I have prayed to find something and God has helped me to find my lost item. This teaches our children that God cares about even the small things that matter to us.

In Deuteronomy 6:6-7

"And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up."

The more we talk about God in the middle of real life, the more natural it becomes for our children to see that faith isn’t something we only think about at church—it’s part of everything we do. It teaches them that God isn’t far away; He’s right here, walking through life with us.

Let Them See You Repent If You Mess Up

As much as we love our kids, sometimes we may mess up and not handle it the best way as a parent. 

Our kids don’t need perfect parents; they need real parents who will admit when they’re wrong. When you lose your temper, say something you shouldn’t, or make a mistake, don’t cover it up. Apologize. Let them see what it looks like to humble yourself and ask for forgiveness—not just from them, but from God

You can even use those moments to pray together. After you’ve apologized, you might say, “Let’s pray and ask God to help both of us have kind words and patient hearts.” That simple step can teach them more about grace than a hundred lectures ever could.

Discipline and Boundaries: Training Your Children to Follow God’s Way

God talks about discipline because it’s an essential part of raising children to know and love Him. While young children may not fully understand spiritual concepts, they still need structure, guidance, and instruction. 

Discipline is more than just correction—it’s training. The Bible says in Proverbs 22:6, “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” This training involves teaching children what’s right, but it also involves setting clear boundaries that help them understand how to live in a way that honors God. Boundaries are God’s gift to us, offering safety and direction, and children need them to grow in wisdom and self-control.

Setting boundaries isn’t just about saying “no” to bad behavior; it’s about teaching children to respect limits, both for their safety and their spiritual growth. 

Boundaries help children understand the difference between right and wrong, and they teach them that there are consequences for every choice they make. Just as God sets boundaries for us in His Word to guide us, we as parents are called to set healthy boundaries for our children. 

Boundaries show our children that we care enough to keep them safe, and that we want them to learn self-discipline, not just in the home, but in their relationship with God. 

Hebrews 12:11 reminds us, “Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.”

Boundaries for Parents and Children: Love, Structure, and Purpose

Discipline is also about creating boundaries for our children. These boundaries are not only for their good but for our good as parents as well. Both children and parents need boundaries to thrive in a godly home. 

Boundaries give children the structure they need to grow and learn, but they also give us as parents the space to lead with wisdom and grace. Boundaries help keep us from being overwhelmed, and they give our children a clear understanding of expectations.

 Hebrews 12:6 says, “For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.” Just as God lovingly disciplines His children, we are called to lovingly discipline our own.

Setting boundaries also helps children understand that obedience to God—and their parents—brings peace and blessings. These boundaries aren’t meant to stifle or control; they’re there to protect, teach, and guide. 

The boundaries we set show our children that God’s commands are not burdensome but meant to help us live lives full of peace, joy, and fulfillment. 

And just as children need boundaries to grow in their faith, we as parents must also establish boundaries in our own lives, modeling how to balance grace with correction, and love with discipline. When we honor God in how we set and enforce boundaries, we’re teaching our children not only how to obey us but how to honor God in all they do.

Pray with Your Children

One of the best ways to show our kids that we rely on God in every moment is by praying with them. It doesn’t have to be long, formal, or full of big theological words. In fact, the more real and honest we are in our prayers, the more our children will learn to talk to God themselves. 

It will teach them, that when they have a problem, trial, temptations, need healing or anything. They know they can go to God and call on him to help them.

Praying with your children gives them the gift of seeing how you lean on God in all circumstances, not just in the good moments but in the tough ones too. It teaches them that God is always with us, listening to our worries, fears, joys, and thanksgiving.

You don’t need to be a preacher or know fancy words to do this with your children. 

Even short prayers like “God, help us to be kind today,” or “Lord, give us strength to do what’s right” are powerful and meaningful. Over time, they’ll start praying for themselves and for others, developing their own relationship with God.

 Prayer, done together, isn’t just a religious routine—it becomes a way of life. And what a gift it is to see our kids learning to rely on God through every season of life.

Make Time for Family Bible Time

Another wonderful way to raise our children in a godly home is by intentionally setting aside time for family Bible time. This doesn’t have to be a big, complicated process. It can be as simple as reading a Bible story together before bed or listening to an uplifting Christian podcast on the way to the store. 

Family Bible time is an opportunity to gather together and focus on God’s Word, and it doesn’t have to be fancy—it just needs to happen regularly. When you do this as a family, you’re showing your children that God’s Word is important in your home, and it’s a priority, not just something we do at church or on Sundays.

You don’t have to have a seminary degree to lead your kids in Bible time—just pick a simple, age-appropriate Bible story and talk about it together. 

Ask questions like, “What do you think this story teaches us about God?” or “How can we show love to others like Jesus did?” The key is to make it personal and relevant. Children love to ask questions, and family Bible time gives them a safe space to ask about God, Jesus, and their faith. 

As they grow, you can dive deeper into the Bible, but the important thing is to make this a consistent time where God’s Word becomes a part of your daily life.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, start small. It doesn’t have to be long—maybe five or ten minutes in the morning or before bed. If your kids are little, use a picture Bible or a Bible storybook, and if they’re older, consider reading a passage from Proverbs or Psalms together. 

The point is not to check off a spiritual to-do list but to intentionally include God’s Word in your family rhythm, building a foundation of faith that will last a lifetime. Over time, you’ll see how these small moments together will shape their understanding of who God is and why His Word is so important in our lives.

Speak God's Truth Over Them

One of the most powerful things you can do as a parent is to speak God’s truth over your children. This isn’t about preaching or lecturing—it’s simply about reminding them of who they are in Christ and the truth of God’s Word. Whether it’s encouraging them when they’re struggling, reassuring them of God’s promises, or just speaking blessings over their lives, your words can make a big impact.

Sometimes, life gets tough, and our kids need to hear that God loves them, that they are precious in His sight, and that He has a purpose for their lives. As you speak life-giving words, you’re planting seeds that will grow in their hearts, helping them to internalize the truth of God’s love. This can be done in everyday moments—whether you’re praying with them before bed or simply reminding them in the middle of a difficult day that they can trust God.

Guard what comes into your home

Guarding what comes into your home is crucial when it comes to raising Godly children. The things we allow in—whether through TV, music, social media, or even the people we surround ourselves with—can have a significant impact on our children’s hearts and minds. As parents, we are called to be vigilant about what enters our homes, ensuring it aligns with Biblical values.

Psalm 101:3 says, “I will set no wicked thing before mine eyes...” This reminds us that we must be intentional about what we expose ourselves and our children to, knowing that what we watch, listen to, and allow in our environment can shape our beliefs and attitudes.

Likewise, 1 Corinthians 15:33 warns, “Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.” The Bible makes it clear that corrupt communication and ungodly influences can slowly erode the values we try to instill in our children. It’s not enough to simply talk about what’s right; we must also protect our homes from negative influences by being selective about the media, relationships, and entertainment that we allow in. By doing so, we are setting a godly example for our children and teaching them how to guard their hearts and minds, keeping them focused on what is pure, lovely, and true

Spend Real, Unrushed Time With Them

In our busy world, it’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of life, but one of the best ways to show your kids they matter is by spending real, unrushed time with them. This doesn’t have to mean long, elaborate activities; it could simply be sitting down together for a meal without distractions or taking a walk and talking about their day. 

The key is being present. Put away the phone, shut off the TV, and give them your full attention. In those quiet moments, you can talk about God, life, or just enjoy each other’s company. Spending intentional time with your kids gives you the opportunity to deepen your relationship with them and create a safe space for them to talk about anything on their hearts. 

It’s in these small moments of connection that you’ll be able to nurture your children’s faith and build a foundation of trust because as they learn to trust their parents it helps them learn to trust God. 

Teach Them to Read the Bible for Themselves

One of the greatest gifts we can give our children is teaching them how to read and understand the Bible for themselves. As they grow, we want them to be able to open God’s Word, find comfort in it, and apply its truths to their own lives.

 Start simple, even with the youngest ones, by reading Bible stories together. As they get older, encourage them to read on their own and ask questions about what they read.

 This will not only help them grow spiritually but will also teach them the discipline of spending time with God. Help them understand that the Bible isn’t just a book of rules, but a love letter from God, filled with wisdom, guidance, and encouragement. The more they get into the habit of reading the Bible, the more they will begin to rely on it in their everyday lives.

 As a parent, you can always walk alongside them, discussing what they’re reading and helping them to apply it in their own lives. Also let your children see you reading the Bible as well. This teaches them how important it is to set aside time to get in God’s word daily.

Serve Together as a Family

Teaching our children to serve others is a powerful way to raise them in God’s ways. Service isn’t just about doing good deeds—it’s about having a heart that seeks to bless others, just like Jesus did.

Whether it’s volunteering at church, helping a neighbor, or supporting a charity, when we serve together as a family, we show our kids the importance of putting others first. It doesn’t have to be a big event either—small acts of kindness, like helping a friend or taking time to pray for someone in need, teach our kids the value of loving and serving others.

When you serve as a family, it’s a chance to talk about why we serve—because God calls us to love our neighbors, and through serving, we’re showing His love to the world. The beauty of family service is that it opens the door for meaningful conversations about the heart of service and why it matters. Plus, you’re creating memories that will stick with your kids, teaching them that faith isn’t just something we talk about, but something we live out in real, tangible ways.

Be Consistent, Even When It’s Hard

As parents, we know life gets busy, and we often feel like we’re juggling a million things. But consistency is key when it comes to raising our children to know and love God.

 Even on the days when you’re tired or overwhelmed, continue to do the little things that matter—whether it’s having a quick prayer time in the morning, sharing a Bible verse during lunch, or just taking a moment to remind your kids of God’s love. 

Consistency doesn’t mean perfection—it means staying faithful, even when it’s hard.

When your children see that you’re consistent in your walk with God, they’ll begin to understand the importance of staying committed to Him, too. 

The Importance of Church: Building Faith and Community Together

The importance of church in the life of a family cannot be overstated. Church is more than just a place we go on Sundays; it’s a place where we can grow together in our faith, build relationships with other believers, and be encouraged by God’s Word. It provides a community where we can worship together, learn, and serve others, teaching our children the value of fellowship and accountability.

Hebrews 10:25 reminds us, “Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching.” Regularly attending church helps keep us spiritually grounded, and when we attend together as a family, it shows our children that being part of the body of Christ is important.

It’s not just about checking a box, but about living out our faith in the community and encouraging one another to grow closer to God. Attending regular church service as God commanded,  is a vital place for spiritual growth and connection, and it’s where we can teach our kids the value of being part of God’s family.

Don’t Be Afraid to Ask for Help

Parenting isn’t something we’re meant to do alone. Whether it’s asking for prayer from your church community or seeking advice from other godly parents, don’t be afraid to lean on others when you need help. Sometimes we need wisdom, encouragement, or simply someone to walk alongside us. God has surrounded us with a community of believers to help carry the load. And just as we’re called to serve others, we also need to be willing to let others serve us.

Encouraging our children to see us rely on others shows them that we don’t have all the answers, but we know the One who does. It teaches humility and the importance of being part of a faith-filled community. Don’t hesitate to ask for help—whether it's advice on navigating a tough parenting season, or simply praying together as a family, it’s okay to let others come alongside you. This is how we grow, and it sets a beautiful example for our kids about leaning on God and others when we need it.

Trust God with the Big Stuff

At the end of the day, we can do everything we can to raise our children well, but we have to trust that God will do the rest. 

Parenting can feel overwhelming, and we often worry about whether we’re doing enough. But the truth is, God is in control. We have to trust that as we do our part—praying, teaching, loving, disciplining—He will be faithful to guide our children and lead them to Him.

Philippians 1:6 says, “Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ.” 

God is at work in your children’s lives, and even on the days when you feel like you’re not doing enough, remember that He’s working behind the scenes. Keep praying, keep loving, and keep trusting that He is faithful to finish the good work He’s started in your family.

So raising Godly children through Biblical training is a journey that requires intentionality, prayer, and consistency. As parents, we have the incredible privilege and responsibility to nurture our children in the ways of the Lord. From speaking God’s truth over them to spending quality, unrushed time together, to guiding them to read the Bible for themselves, every moment is an opportunity to plant seeds of faith.

 We must also protect our homes from harmful influences, creating an environment where God’s Word is honored and lived out. And through it all, we trust that God will be faithful to guide and strengthen us. 

3 John 1:4 says, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.” There’s no greater joy than seeing our children grow in their faith, and as we walk this path together, we can be confident that God will lead us every step of the way. Let’s continue to pray, teach, and guide our children, trusting that He will finish the good work He has started in them.

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